"As soon as I was pregnant, everything changed" - Kate

Posted on December 06, 2016 at 12:02 PM

Kate Dolls House

"My mother passed away when I was a young single parent. I met this guy who instantly put me up on a pedestal. I was grieving and raising a child on my own and here was this man offering me all that I wanted; a loving family, the happy ever after that we all look for. He really wanted a child and as soon as I was pregnant, everything changed.

When I had the baby, it got worse and I realised he wanted me pregnant so he had a bit more control over me.

I remember we were bringing the baby home from the hospital for the first time, she cried like most newborns do. He lost his temper and shouted "For f*ck sake, she's going to be a moan, just like her mother." That was my daughters welcome to the world and the goodbye to my fairytale ending."


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