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Day 11: Abuse increases health risks

Posted on December 05, 2015

Day 11

Women and children experiencing domestic violence should never been portrayed as passive victims. Women’s Aid continues to be inspired by the women who use our services. Women, who are trying to live their lives, raise their children, study, work, and look after themselves and others, but who are doing so while suffering the most horrific abuse.

Women like us, like our sisters, our mothers, our friends and our workmates, whose strength and resilience in the face of unimaginable abuse and fear ultimate should not be underestimated. Yet, the impact of the abuse on the women we meet cannot be minimised or downplayed.

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Guest blog post: Safe cities for women and girls

Posted on December 04, 2015

Safe Cities

By Rodney Rice, board member of ActionAid Ireland

On Cham Da is a beer promoter in a restaurant in Cambodia’s capital, Phnom Penh. A beer promoter’s job is to encourage a man to drink more. This may mean accepting an invitation to sit beside him. Whether employed as staff or on commission the pressure is to comply. The alternative will be unemployment.

Sitting beside means physical contact. Drinking more beer may well lead to more intrusive contact. Even serving the table can bring harassment. On a recent night a customer grabbed Om Chan’s bottom as she opened a beer for him. That is sexual abuse. An indignity at the very least.

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Women's Voices - Clare

Posted on December 04, 2015

Young woman picture for website

Clare* recently sent us her story, in her own words, to share with you as part of our One in Five Women campaign during the International 16 Days of Action.  Today, Day 10, we are highlighting that domestic violence can happen in young, dating relationships.  

What Clare's story shows us just how easy it is to become trapped in an abusive relationship and how hard it is to see the warning signs. Clare also had a very difficult experience when trying to leave her abuser but with the help of family and support from Women's Aid, she and her daughter are happy and safe today.

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Day 10: 60% of abuse starts before the age of 25

Posted on December 04, 2015

Day 10

In a national survey on domestic violence in Ireland, almost 60% of people who were severely abused said that the abuse started when they were under 25 years old.

Women's Aid hears from young women when their relationship starts to feels unhealthy, often after something has happened that may have made women feel unsafe or uncomfortable. When it feels like he is just 'too into you'. We also hear from women who have been living with domestic violence for some time that the signs that their partners were possessive and controlling were there from the start. But to them and their family and friends, it appeared like they were just 'so into her'.

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Message of Support, Dr. Sam Coulter Smith,Master of the Rotunda

Posted on December 03, 2015

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"I am delighted to support Women's Aid International 16 Days of Action Opposing Violence against Women. Violence against women is to be deplored in all its forms and any campaign which highlights the issue of violence against women should be supported. Unfortunately violence against women is something that can and does occur in pregnancy and it is up to all of us who work in the health care services to do our best to encourage women to come forward and seek help when this occurs."

Dr. Sam Coulter Smith is a Consultant in Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Master of the Rotunda Hospital and a clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at the Royal College of Surgeons.

Read more about domestic violence during pregnancy here.

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Day 9: Domestic Violence During Pregnancy

Posted on December 03, 2015

Day 9

No one ever deserves to be beaten, threatened, raped and insulted. However, nowhere is domestic violence more stark or disturbing than during pregnancy. Women's Aid is deeply concerned about the prevalence of abuse of women during pregnancy and the post natal period.

Pregnancy does not offer protection to domestic violence. In fact, international research has found that 30% of women who experience domestic violence are physically assaulted for the first time during pregnancy (Child Protection and Welfare Handbook, HSE, 2011).

The Rotunda Hospital conducted research which found that 1 in 8 women surveyed were being abused during their current pregnancy (O'Donnell et all, 2000).

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Women's voices - Ellen

Posted on December 02, 2015

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As part of our Women's Voices project, collecting and sharing women's testimonies of domestic violence, we're sharing Ellen's story today.  Ellen has asked that her name is changed but that her story is told in the hope that it helps other women escape from a life of abuse.

"I was far safer with him gone. So my advice is to stop, think, find a way to escape. The longer it goes on the harder it will be to get out.  Phone Women’s Aid.  Let your family know how you are suffering and don’t put up with any of it.  There is a good life waiting for you out there.

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Message of Support, An Taoiseach Enda Kenny, T.D.

Posted on December 02, 2015

Enda Kenny

An Taoiseach Enda Kenny, TD, supports the Women's Aid 16 Days campaign.

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Day 8: Children Witness Abuse

Posted on December 02, 2015

Day 8

The majority of children living in a home where domestic violence is present are affected by the abuse. Children are victims of domestic violence both when directly targeted by the perpetrator of abuse and when witnessing the violence directed at their mother. Research has shown that there is a connection between domestic violence and child abuse and that witnessing the abuse is in itself a form of emotional abuse. (Listening to Children: Children's Stories of Domestic Violence, Hogan, F. and O'Reilly M, Office of the Minister For Children, 2007)

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Message of Support, Tusla - Child and Family Agency

Posted on December 01, 2015

Tusla

On Day 7 of the Women's Aid One in Five Women Campaign during the International 16 Days of Action, Gordon Jeyes, Chief Executive Officer of Tusla, shares a message of support:

“People talk about the voice of the victim and as the Child and Family Agency, the voice of the child and of their families is central to our responses. But it shouldn’t be up to individual victims to repeatedly have to tell their stories to get responses.

We need scrutiny of what causes domestic violence, sexual violence and sexual abuse against boys and girls.

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